This change add more metrics around "meta" (non "message" type packets).
For lighthouse packets, we also record statistics around the specific
lighthouse meta type.
We don't keep statistics for the "message" type so that we don't slow
down the fast path (and you can just look at metrics on the tun
interface to find that information).
* add configurable punching delay because of race-condition-y conntracks
* add changelog
* fix tests
* only do one punch per query
* Coalesce punchy config
* It is not is not set
* Add tests
Co-authored-by: Nate Brown <nbrown.us@gmail.com>
Wade Simmons