Currently, we drop the conntrack table when firewall rules change during a SIGHUP reload. This means responses to inflight HTTP requests can be dropped, among other issues. This change copies the conntrack table over to the new firewall (it holds the conntrack mutex lock during this process, to be safe).
This change also records which firewall rules hash each conntrack entry used, so that we can re-verify the rules after the new firewall has been loaded.
A CIDRTree can be expensive to create, so only do it if we need
it. If the remote host only has one IP address and no subnets, just do
an exact IP match instead.
Fixes: #171